Great Sacrifice, Great Friend, Jesus

John‬ ‭15‬:‭13‬

“Greater love has no one than this: to lay down one’s life for one’s friends.”

‭‭John‬ ‭15‬:‭13‬ ‭NIV‬‬

This verse highlights the ultimate act of love, sacrificing oneself for the well-being of others, even to the point of death. It encourages us to reflect on how we can extend our love and compassion, mirroring Jesus's selfless sacrifice for his followers.

The verse is a call to action, encouraging believers to strive for a love that extends beyond self-interest and into the needs of others.

While not always involving physical death, this verse can be applied to everyday situations where we can choose to prioritize others' needs, even when it requires sacrifice.

The verse specifically mentions "friends," suggesting that this level of love should be extended to those who are close to us and those with whom we have a meaningful connection.

There are endless parallels between Christ’s example and how Christians should strive to love others. However, practicing this kind of love is sometimes easier said than done.

Here are some practical ways we can show the love described in this verse are:

Actively make time for family and friends. Show your love and concern for those close to you by giving them a call, sharing an activity, staying in touch, sending a card, etc.

Actively look for ways to fill a friend’s needs. Foster a generous spirit by being conscious of the needs of others. Recognizing the needs of others is a trait that we must develop.

Actively listen in conversations. Show love by actively listening to what others say. This helps us stay better connected and keeps us aware of others’ needs. 

Practice a “give” way of life. Train yourself to focus on what you can put into a relationship through service, not just what you can get from it.

Refrain from spreading rumors or hurtful gossip. Humans love gossip! But spreading rumors, while enjoyable for the moment, hurts others. We can sacrifice the short-term pleasure we get from gossip by applying the wisdom of Proverbs 17:9.  

Resist the urge to bear grudges. We like to stew in our anger, but it requires mercy and self-sacrifice to willingly forgive someone who’s wronged us.

Words communicate and explain. We can tell someone we love them. We can explain how precious they are to us. Actions validate and confirm. When we sacrifice our preferences for another, we show our respect and affection. When we sacrifice ourselves, our wishes, and our preferences for a friend we give the greatest of all gifts and prove our love beyond any doubt!!!

Father thank You for this day and the greatest of all examples of love that Christ demonstrated toward us in that while we’re still sinners, He died for us. He has called us to be a member of His family and to love others as He has loved us. Lord open the floodgates of heaven and rain down your abundant blessings over my friend and family today. Lord May we love others in Your strength and power, and unconditionally today. Be a blessing.

Father, we love You. Amen !